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WATER, WATER EVERYWHERE!

Posted by Women of St. James on August 31, 2007

As most of us already know, St. James UMC had a fire August 25th in the wee hours of the morning.  There was a major storm with lightning and thunder (of which I totally slept through!) and it appears that lightning struck the west end of the sanctuary roof and started the fire.  It was raining so hard that it semi-put out the fire.  At the same time the lightning struck it also fried our telephone lines of which our fire alarms are connected!  So, the fire department right next door did not get a call.   However, our sprinkler system was working and went about its happy way to do its job and continued to do just that until it  so happened (do you think God was in charge? obvious answer YES!) that Jerry Snider showed up for the dinner theatre auditions on Sat morning around 9:30 am.

After Jerry called the trustees and pastor, getting the sprinkler convinced it it did not need to be on any longer, and assessing the damage,  someone thought they smelled smoke and did indeed locate the smoke,  Ron sumpter had to get into his car and drive next door to the fire department and notify them that we were in the midst of a fire!  So three fire trucks roared around the corner and went about putting the fire out.  By the way, we have an absolutely wonderful fire station next door with some great firemen.  Anytime you have opportunity, go by and thank them for all their hard work.  Maybe even take some homemade cookie?   Especially remember them in your prayers!

We can be reached at:  wosj07@yahoo.com

 

 

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COMING SOON….The Oklahoma Centennial Year of Unbroken Prayer!

Posted by Women of St. James on August 13, 2007

St. James UMC is so blessed to have a part in the Oklahoma Centennial Year of unbroken Prayer.  We will begin our week of prayer September 9th through 15th.  There will be sign up posters in the foyer on Sunday. Be sure to check out the website:  http://www.tulsaprayer.comSt. James is already listed on the website just click on the “Register to Pray and pick your time”.  We are asking that you choose your time in one hour increments, and that you come to the church prayer room to pray.

Realizing that an hour seems like a long time to pray, we will have the prayer room set up with lots of prayer aids.  We plan to have security people in the church from 8pm (time subject to change if it gets dark before then) until 7 am. 

Look for more information coming this week at church!  In the meantime, be sure to check the website out, look at the church that is praying this week (highlighted in gold by date) and pray for them as they pray for Tulsa.

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40 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married

Posted by Cindy Downes on August 4, 2007

© Copyright by Joe McGee, Joe McGee Ministries

Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude. Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will bless you for it. For the scriptures say, “If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days. Keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies. Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace, and work to maintain it. The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil.” (I Peter 3:8-12 NLT)

  • Great relationships are no accident.
  • If work is taking my best energy, my marriage will suffer.
  • The greatest gift I can give my spouse is my own happiness.
  • It is possible to hate and love someone at the same time.The only rules in marriage are the ones you both agree on.
  • It’s not what you have, it’s what you do with it that counts.
  • Conflict does not destroy a marriage, but the avoidance of it causes resentment.
  • Every marriage has seasons–there can be some hard winters.
  • My primary relationship is with my spouse, not my kids.
  • It is never too late to repair damaged trust.
  • Secrets are lies.
  • Sex can improve with age.
  • If you can’t be happy without your spouse, you probably can’t be happy with them.
  • Getting help when you can’t work things out is a sign of intelligence, not weakness.
  • One person, no matter how much you love them, cannot meet all of your emotional needs.
  • The real issue is usually not what you are arguing about.
  • Love is not a feeling; it’s an action.
  • Arguments cannot be avoided in marriage, but destructive ones can.
  • Even people with great marriages sometimes wonder if they married the wrong person.
  • My opinion is not necessarily the truth.
  • Vacations are necessities, not luxuries.
  • Trust takes years to establish and moments to destroy.
  • Guilt-tripping never gets you what you want.
  • What you judge in your spouse is a reflection of what you judge in yourself. It takes one to know one.
  • A lack of vision will destroy even the most loving of marriages.
  • My spouse is both my teacher and my student.
  • If my spouse is defensive, I’m probably giving them a reason to be.
  • The cheap thrill you get by putting down your spouse isn’t cheap.
  • Good sex doesn’t make a marriage great, but it sure helps.
  • Possessiveness and jealousy are born out of fear, not love.
  • Don’t say anything about your spouse that you’re not willing to say to them.
  • If your spouse thinks something is important, it is.
  • Marriages never outgrow the need for romance.
  • There’s a difference between sex and romance.
  • Nothing deadens sexual desire more than unresolved anger.
  • Don’t yell at your spouse unless the house is on fire.
  • The silent treatment was invented by a kindergartner.
  • A quick phone call when you are going to be late can prevent an explosion.
  • It’s okay to read a book on improving your marriage.
  • Don’t keep feelings of gratitude to yourself.

Yours for the souls of families,
Joe McGee

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50 Healthy Snacks

Posted by Cindy Downes on August 4, 2007

50 Healthy Snack Ideas:

1. Cappuccino Caramel Whip– In a blender, combine 1/2 cup fat-free vanilla frozen yogurt, a splash of fat-free milk, 1/4 t. instant espresso powder, and a dash of cinnamon. Top with a dollop of fat-free whipped topping and a tablespoon of fat-free caramel topping.

2. Chocolate-Dipped Strawberries — Dip fresh strawberries in 1 tablespoon of lowfat chocolate syrup
Skinny Root Beer Float — Make a float with diet root beer and fat-free or lowfat ice cream.

3. Garlic & Feta Cheese Dip– In a food processor, combine 4 ounces each feta and cream cheese, 1/3 cup mayonnaise, 1 clove garlic, and sprinkles of basil, oregano, dill and thyme to taste; mix well. Cover and chill; serve with vegetables and crackers.
Iced cafe au lait — Combine 1/2 cup milk with 1/2 cup coffee, sweeten with sugar substitute and pour over ice.

6. Berries ‘n cream– Strawberries, blueberries, raspberries, and/or blackberries, with 1/2 cup fat-free half and half or vanilla soy milk and 1/2 t. sugar (optional).

7. Sliced pear with 1 ounce of reduced fat cheddar cheese

8. Raspberry-Banana slush — 1/2 banana, 1/2 cup frozen raspberries, 1/2 cup orange juice, few ice cubes

9. ‘Mini’ raspberry smoothie — In a blender, combine a carton of fat-free raspberry yogurt, 1/4 cup frozen raspberries, 1/4 cup orange juice and 1 T. wheat germ.

10. Fat-free cottage cheese on toast– Add a little butter-flavored spray to the toast before the cottage cheese if desired. Also, try adding a few slices of tomato and some italian seasoning.

11. Baked tortilla chips with bean dip– Make sure to keep the portions reasonable

12. Caramel flavored rice cake– with a light spread of reduced fat peanut butter

13. Glass of Ovaltine, 1 graham cracker

14. One nectarine (make sure it’s ripe and juicy) and 5 pecan halves

15. Easy tostada:– Spread fat-free refried beans over a small corn tortilla, top with reduced-fat cheese; broil until heated through. Top with salsa and light sour cream.

16. Cool Peach Slushie– Blend together a carton of low-fat/fat-free peach (or plain) yogurt, a ripe, peeled peach and a couple ice cubes.

17. Mini-pita pockets stuffed with hummus and fresh spinach

18. Quick Queso Dip — Combine 1/4 cup salsa with 2 tablespoons light Velveeta cheese. Heat in microwave until cheese melts. Serve with baked tortilla chips

19. Six cups low-fat microwave popcorn

20. Whole wheat crackers stacked with lean ham, lowfat cheese and mustard

21. Fruit parfait– Layer a few strawberries, 1/2 sliced banana, light chocolate syrup and fat free whipping topping.

22. Broiled pita with feta and veggies– Slice open a whole wheat pita; broil until lightly browned. Add chopped tomatoes, cucumber and 1 T. reduced fat feta cheese; sprinkle with dried oregano. Heat just until cheese is softened.

23. 2 reduced fat Oreo cookies, 1/2 cup skim milk

24. Light nachos– melt about 1 ounce of reduced fat pepper jack cheese over just a handful of baked tortilla chips and dip in salsa (the key here is moderation!)

25. A can of V8 or vegetable juice

26. Celery with Peanut Butter and Raisins– To kids, this is known as ‘ants on a log’. To adults, it’s a filling, yet healthy (in moderation) and tasty treat. Spread a small amount of reduced fat peanut butter on a large celery stick, sprinkle on a few raisins and enjoy!

27. Fresh Bing Cherries & Almonds– Cherries make a great snack for many reasons – lowcal, taste great AND because of the pits, you’ll eat slower and feel satisfied sooner. For some protein, add a *small* handful of whole almonds.

28. Lettuce Turkey Rollups– roll a slice of turkey, tomato and cucumber slices, and a splash of balsamic vinegar up in a romaine lettuce leaf

29. Black bean dip– puree rinsed black beans, salsa and lime juice; serve with baked tortilla chips

30. Whole-grain waffle– spread with light cream cheese & topped with fresh fruit

31. Dried Cranberries & Peanuts (just a handful)

32. Kosher pickle spear wrapped in deli turkey slice

33. Chocolate soy milk and a lowfat graham cracker

34. Toasted cheese sandwich made with lowfat cheese

35. Handful of roasted soy nuts

36. Cold cereal (low sugar/high fiber) and lowfat milk

37. Mini pita bread — Stuffed with a mixture of grated or finely chopped vegetables (use what you have on hand -carrots, celery, peppers, broccoli, sprouts, etc.), light or fat-free cream cheese, and Mrs. Dash.

38. Cheese flavored rice or popcorn cakes

39. Whole wheat tortilla — spread with cream cheese, top with your choice of pineapple bits, banana slices, strawberries, raisins, sunflower seeds or nuts, then roll up

40. A cup of vegetable soup (low-sodium if you like)

41. Sliced apple dipped in 1 T. caramel sauce

42. Quick tuna salad on crackers–mix up small amount of water-packed tuna with a touch of light mayo, Mrs. Dash and maybe some celery and red peppers. Serve on a couple whole grain crackers.

43. 1 c. low-fat plain yogurt; 1/2 c. blueberries; 1 t. walnuts

44. Lowfat tortilla –Baked until crispy, cut into wedges, served with 1/4 cup salsa

45. 1 sliced tomato with about 1 ounce part-skim mozzarella–Try splashing with some balsamic vinegar for extra flavor

46. 1/2 cinnamon raisin english muffin, with 2 t. light cream cheese

47. 1 hard-boiled egg on a slice of whole-wheat toast

48. 1 cup of grape or cherry tomatoes–Optional: Dip in 1 t. light ranch or blue cheese salad dressing

49. Quick hummus:–In food processor or blender, puree 1 can garbanzo beans (chickpeas), 2 cloves garlic, 1 T. lemon juice, (optional add-in: 1/2 cup roasted red peppers)

50. English muffin pizza–Top 1/2 of a whole wheat english muffin with pizza sauce, chopped fresh vegetables (try green pepper and mushrooms) and 1 T. mozzarella cheese, broil in toaster oven or regular over until cheese melts. If you prefer, saute vegetables first to make them a bit softer.

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CHRISTMAS GREENERY IS COMING!

Posted by Women of St. James on August 2, 2007

The WOSJ will be selling the Christmas greenery wreaths that the Top Fifty group has sold the last several years. We are excited about this fundraiser.

Be sure to watch this site for more information that will be coming soon.

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Gran L’s Famous Tuna Salad

Posted by Women of St. James on August 1, 2007

Gran L’s Famous Tuna Salad

  • 2 cans tuna (best kind to use is packed with oil) but can use packed with water.
  • ¼ cup pimento stuffed olives chopped
  • 1 tsp chopped onion (I use about ¼ cup)
  • ½ cup celery chopped finely (I use 1 cup)
  • ¼ tsp salt
  • ¼ tsp paprika
  • 2 tablespoon lemon juice.
  • 1-cup miracle whip (can use Hellmann’s mayonnaise).
  • 2 envelops Knox gelatin….1-cup whipping cream (whipped and chilled)

Dissolve gelatin in ½ cup hot water. Let gelatin sit while mixing all the other ingredients. Then add the softened gelatin to the mixture (mix thoroughly). If mixture is warm, set it in refrigerator freezer 5 or 10 minutes to get it cold.

Last, fold the whipped cream to the mixture and place in casserole pan that has been sprayed VERY LIGHTLY with Mazola spray (same thing as Pam spray only better).

Optional: can sprinkle a little extra paprika on top to garnish. Or can slice some stuffed pimento olives and place on top as a garnish. Or as I do, both paprika and sliced olives on top as a garnish.Chill in refrigerator until firm and serve on a bed of lettuce with fresh sliced tomatoes and crackers.VGI (very good item)….Enjoy

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MEXICAN PULLED PORK

Posted by Women of St. James on August 1, 2007

This recipe makes a delicious filling for tacos or soft tortillas. Serve with sides of shredded cheese, lettuce, onion, and chopped tomatoes.

Ingredients:

  • 3 pound boneless pork roast
  • 1 package taco seasoning mix
  • 1 teaspoon garlic powder
  • 4 ounce can chopped green chilies, drained
  • 1 cup water

Directions:   Place pork roast in bottom of slow cooker. Mix remaining ingredients together and pour over roast. Cover and cook on low for 8-10 hours. Break pork apart with a large fork while still in slow cooker.

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Proverbs 31:10-30 (THE MESSAGE)

Posted by Women of St. James on August 1, 2007

Proverbs 31:10-30 from The Message 

A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.
Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it.
Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.
She shops around for the best yarns and cottons, and enjoys knitting and sewing.
She’s like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exotic surprises.
She’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day.
She looks over a field and buys it, then, with money she’s put aside, plants a garden.
First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.
She senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.
She’s skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, diligent in homemaking.
She’s quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to help the poor.
She doesn’t worry about her family when it snows; their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear.
She makes her own clothing, and dresses in colorful linens and silks.
Her husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers.
She designs gowns and sells them, brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops.
Her clothes are well-made and elegant, and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.
When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly.
She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive.
Her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise:  “Many women have done wonderful things, but you’ve outclassed them all!”
Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades.  The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.
Give her everything she deserves!    Festoon her life with praises!

Prov.31 states that a virtuous  woman is worth more than rubies, she is trusted, does good & not harm, works with her hands, takes care of her family’s needs, shops wisely, serves others, uses her God-given gifts with business, she is strong & every time she works a full day into the night, helps the poor and needy, she is respected by all.

There is nothing mentioned about the virtuous woman’s outward appearance. the inner qualities are far more impressive. Even though her outer clothing was fine linen & purple, strength & honor were her real clothing. True beauty came from inner strength of character & cannot be bought or applied with expensive clothes or beauty creams. The end description of the wise woman included her children blessing her  & her husband complimenting her. The key to her success was that she feared the Lord and worshipped Him.
 

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Once a Month Cooking

Posted by Cindy Downes on August 1, 2007

A great resource for saving time in the kitchen is called, Once a Month Cooking by Mary-Beth Lagerborg. The idea is to take one or two days a month to prepare all the meals for the month. It’s not as hard as it sounds. Mary-Beth provides the menus, the recipes, a shopping list of all the ingredients needed, and complete directions for making this a workable system. The recipes are delicious, too! Vegetable Lasagna, Pizza Rollups, Marinated Flank Steak, Calzones, Ham & Swiss Pastry Bake, Chicken á la King, Mexican Stroganoff, Cheesy Corn Casserole, and many more!

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Designer Fashions at Budget Prices!

Posted by Cindy Downes on August 1, 2007

For those of you who love “designer” fashions but don’t want to spend “designer” money, you’ll want to visit the Echo Shop (at 5926 S. Lewis) and Designer Consigner (6642 S. Lewis). Both of these shops stock gently used, designer fashions at great prices! The Echo Shop is closed for restocking and will reopen on August 2nd. Good deals and great fashion!

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